“Psychologists have scientifically proven that the greatest overall contributing factor to overall happiness in your life is the amount of gratitude you show.” Everyone likes to be appreciated for their efforts, and by doing so you will get more productivity out of those you surround yourself with. The power of these simple words is so strong and so profound, that the mere mention of them makes people feel a strong and satisfying sense of contentment. Be it your parents, your friends, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your spouse, your boss, your employee, a teacher, or simply someone who is doing he's job and helping you; showing some genuine appreciation for that person can really make their day.
Too many things and people in our lives are taken for granted. As we grow older and put the pieces of our meandering lives together, we sometimes tend to overlook the importance of certain things and certain people in our lives who have contributed in shaping us into the person we are. Spare a moment for some positive thoughts for these people. Gratitude is a virtue.
Once in a while, place a clean note of cash on the tray after eating your wife or girlfriend or sister's meal like you do in restaurants just to say thanks. Ladies, you nag and complain about so many things; how you want to be treated, how you want your man to dress and so on. When he starts to try to make changes please acknowledge it. A simple "I appreciate that you help me bath the kids" can spur him to do more for you. Today, remind your parents that they've done a good job raising you. Like my pastor said on Sunday, after doing that, ask for anything on earth and it'll be granted. Try sending out a thank you gift to that person you always call your guardian angel or to that wonderful friend that's always at your beck and call whenever you need him/her. You may not have money to buy all sought but you have words. Send a voice or written note. If they are right there with you pleas show'em some love, a worm hug won't hurt.
We complain too much and forget the good things around us. Please display an attitude of gratitude to your God and people around you. Things are really not that bad.
This is a very beautiful piece. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteBut I heard that some people do not like to be thanked for what they are paid to do. Is that true?
ReplyDeleteVery true. Even worse, some people don't like being thank after doing a favour. Personally I think that attitude sucks. Accepting an appreciation won't ruin your commendable gesture. Whether you got paid for it or not. The weird part is if this same set of people don't get a thank you, they'll raise an alarm.
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